We hope you all had a wonderful Christmas.
Sunday, December 27, 2009
Merry Christmas
We hope you all had a wonderful Christmas.
Saturday, December 19, 2009
The simple life
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Noah's Asleep - The best update ever!
So, Brett posted a month ago about Noah's sleeping problems. At 9 months he was still waking up anywhere from 3-5 times every night. So we finally decided to restrict him to a pack-'n-play in the basement with a monitor from midnight until 7, when Hyrum wakes up. We're happy to say that after 3 weeks he finally was consistently staying asleep for 7 hours. . and so we moved him back into the crib. Now for the past 3 nights he's stayed asleep from 8 until about 7! Ahhh, we love having our nights back.
Sunday, December 13, 2009
Let it Snow!
Monday, December 7, 2009
The Truth about Santa
Before Brett and I got married we discussed our thoughts on Santa vs. no Santa. Now that we’ve been married for nearly 4 years and Hyrum is 2 ½ it’s time for me to rethink the subject. In my mind I’ve seen it as Lies vs. Truth and nothing more. I was never taught to believe in the Big Man and as a child made fun of kids who were ‘deceived’ by lying parents. Brett thinks it’s sad, but I think I was given a healthy dose of truth. Despite what backgrounds Brett and I came from I’ve decided to seek out my real feelings on the subject and record it for posterity.
My biggest argument on the subject has been commercialism and how much Christ is taken out of Christmas, leaving Santa Clause more celebrated and credited for all the joy and spirit of the season. I don’t like it at all. I want our children’s first thoughts when they hear Christmas to be the baby Jesus born under a star in a stable a long time ago. And because of His birth we celebrate by giving gifts like the wise men and putting lights on our house just like the star to light the way. With that said, now I need to give myself a reality check. Hyrum has been going to the nursery in our church for about a year now and usually when we talk about nursery or church, the first thing he says is ‘Toys! Play!’. It isn’t Jesus, Hymns, or scripture stories that come to mind. . . in fact it probably isn’t even the second or third thing he thinks of either. Are we doing something wrong? No. Young children just don’t fully understand circumstance or consequence, they understand instances of gratification. It’s in the first eight years that we teach them habit and right vs. wrong, it’s not until later that the dots of understanding connect the why’s of life. So expecting a child in their first few years to get excited about someone they’ve never met and don’t fully understand might be a bit unrealistic. Santa Clause, however, is a happy grandpa-figure that children can understand. They can sit on his lap and listen to his big laugh and tell him about things that will give them instant gratification. I can see the big appeal. I don’t think believing that there is a person that dedicates his life to giving gifts and bringing happiness is bad. It’s a great example for children to learn selflessness from. I’m okay with introducing this kind of Santa to our kids. I’ll go along with the whole reindeer, North Pole, and chimney elaborations that have been created over time as parents dug themselves deeper into something they didn’t know how to get out of. Basically, I’ve come to the conclusion that I believe in the theory of Santa Clause, and will not be opposed to our children learning and getting excited about him as their hearts and minds prepare to learn and understand more about the true meaning of Christmas.
So, someday when Hyrum comes to me and really wants to know if Santa is real my response will be something like this:
Sunday, December 6, 2009
Progressive Dinner
Wednesday, December 2, 2009
Pretty Lights
Saturday, November 28, 2009
Laying the Turkey to Rest
Thanksgiving was nice and relaxed. My sister Holly and her husband Jeremy and their youngest came to hang out with us on Thursday. We ate until we were tired and then put the boys down for a nap while we watched Wolverine.