The longest stretch he's ever had is about 4 hours and that was a rarity. Usually his schedule is something like this, go down at 8, get up at 10 (feed and go back down), get up around 12 or 1 (feed and go back down), get up around 2 or 3 (sometimes feed and go back down), and often gets up around 5 (the goes back down for a few more hours).
I'm not complaining just trying to help you see how monumental last night was :). We have not let him cry it out like we did with Hyrum because he wakes Hyrum up. So last night we decided to put in a pack 'n play in the play room in the basement (with his heater of course). We set up the monitor so we could hear him in our bedroom (two floors up). He went down at 8 like normal and then woke up around 9:30. We kept him up as close to 11:00 as we could and then put him to bed in his new makeshift nursery. After reading scriptures and praying really hard that Steph and Noah would get a full night's sleep (for the first time since Noah was born). . . we went to bed and when we woke up at 7:00 am this is what we found in the playroom:
SUCCESS. . . he's still asleep. Unfortunately Steph has a bad sore throat and so she still woke up throughout the night, but even with that it was a much better night than she's had in a loooooooong time! We'll keep you posted as we try for two nights in a row tonight!
ADDENDUM:
The night was good for us but may not have been so good for Noah. When he woke up around 8:00 am he was acting confused, and more groggy than usual. That got us thinking maybe he was screaming and we didn't hear him. I checked the monitor and found that the green "link" light was on however there was no sound coming through it (not even white noise). Turns out the monitor tries to be smart, you can set a "sensitivity" level on it and if the noise doesn't exceed the sensitivity threshold then the monitor goes into a silent mode until some noise exceeds the threshold. We did not know this. The sensitivity was set to the lowest setting and after testing it this morning that meant that Noah would have had to basically have his mouth against the monitor and scream for it to "activate" our receiver upstairs. So the poor guy may have been screaming for 6 hours for all we know. Does this make us mean parents . . . I don't think so. Perhaps he "cried it out" a little longer and harder than we intended, but the point is for him to learn to sleep without our aid. . . so I guess mission accomplished :) But lest ye think me heartless we are going to make sure the sensitivity level is set adequately high tonight so that if he's crying we can at least be aware of it.
6 comments:
oh my goodness, poor steph! you guys are some patient parents!
i don't know if this helps at all (i'm sure you've thought of everything by now!) but we started putting piper to bed like 2 hours earlier than sophie's bedtime to let her cry it out and that way she was out by the time soph had to go to bed. worked like a charm. good luck!!
Sounds like the problem with the sensitivity setting was really a blessing from Heaven -- you could sleep without stressing about him waking up (hearing every single noise is not a good thing)! And I'm sure he was just fine :) Good luck with the rest of the week -- I'm sure he'll be a good sleeper in no time!
I'm laughing. I love being a parent, and an obvious "newbie" on the job. That totally sounds like something I would have done on accident, too. Fast recovery wishes with the sore throat and the sleeping. Fortunately they both pass.
I'm with Jennifer- maybe it was a blessing in disguise! Noah survived the night just fine and maybe tonight will go better than last... good luck!
ahh i am sorry! that is horrible! Good luck trying again! I am hoping he sleeps good for you!
Hey, we've done things like that on PURPOSE...like when my husband gave me earplugs when I needed to learn to let my first baby fall asleep on her own and cry it out...I'm glad the monitor wasn't working!!
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